6 Concrete Signs You’re Falling Out Of Love– If you aren’t paying attention, falling out of love is a slow, creeping process, until one day you realize you have no longer fallen in love with your partner.
You might be able to figure out the signals in advance so that you won’t be shocked when the truth comes out. You’re falling out of love, aren’t you? Here are some subtle signs you should watch out for.
1. You no longer feel like a “we.”
This one might have already caught on with people in your life before you did. “We will be there,” “we were thinking…” the “we” has now been replaced with “I.” Your subconscious has already begun separating you from your partner.
2. Everything they do irritates you.
What’s with all those cute little quirks? There’s no more cuteness in them. Despite the fact that we get annoyed with people we love all the time–after all, we all get annoyed with people we love–this is a major red flag when coupled with everything else on this list.
3. You feel like you’ve grown in different directions.
Time changes everyone. As a result of striving to improve, you change. As a result of trauma, you change. It’s easy to change over the course of a lifetime without even realizing it. It is possible for couples to drift apart, even if they are moving in similar directions.
4. You feel empty.
Your heart isn’t full of love anymore. There is no happiness, no contentment in your life. When you think of your partner, you just feel empty. A feeling of general emptiness may be a sign of depression. Your mind tells you you’ve lost love if you only feel empty when you think about your relationship.
5. You dream of a life without them.
The things you used to fantasize about doing together as a couple are now noticeably absent from your fantasies. Daydreaming about doing things on your own, rather than with your partner. If you can’t even imagine yourself with this person anymore, it may be time to end your relationship.
6. You can’t remember the last time they made you feel happy.
It was once so wonderful to feel so happy. It was such a privilege to wake up next to them every morning. Have you ever truly felt happy being with them? Make a change now because this is your sign.